Fühle mich einsam, beschämt, dumm. Ich weiß, dass diese Gedanken nicht gut für Babys sind, aber es war schwer, sie zu ändern. Was kann ich tun, um glücklich oder friedlich zu werden und glücklich und friedlich zu bleiben?

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Kurz bevor ich herausfand, dass ich schwanger war, fand ich heraus, dass mein Freund zu seiner Ex-Freundin zurückgekehrt war. Sie ist mehr als gewalttätig und kindisch. Wir haben uns offensichtlich getrennt. Ich nahm es schwer, wusste aber nicht warum. Dann fand ich heraus, dass ich schwanger war. Er schrie "angeblich". Endlich bemerkte er, dass er mich falsch machte und begann herumzukommen. Ich habe vor kurzem eine Nachricht von dem Mädchen bekommen, dass sie auch schwanger ist und wir sollten für die "Kinder" sprechen. Er hat sich nur entschuldigt. Es war schon schwer genug und ich werde immer blind. Ich bin emotional in der Box. Er spricht über ein neues Haus und er ist nicht einsam. Ich bin alleine

Single & Schwanger vor 6 Jahren 6 Antworten 1866 mal gesehen

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    1st, you do NOT have to talk to that woman. If your baby has a relationship with their father, & the other child is in his life too, they can meet that way. Block her from messaging you - you don’t owe her an explanation. 2nd, he is STILL making you feel bad after he treated you badly - it doesn’t really matter that he’s sorry now. Limit contact with him to necessary baby communication - ignore anything else he sends you. 3rd, self care! Treat yourself to relaxing faves (movies, baths, books, early bedtime, etc) & involve loving family/friends in your pregnancy instead of that worthless man❤️
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    This other woman sounds jealous and imature. A real woman wouldnt stay or want to be your boyfriend. She should be understanding and even support that he's going to try to work it out with you for the sake his future family. So I wouldn't be surprised if you guys find out that she is lying about herself being pregnant too. Don't give any more of your energy to her, thats what she wants . I agree, block her from communicating with you in every way possible. When you feel lonely remember, you are never alone. That precious life growing inside of you makes that impossible. Talk to it.
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    I agree with the other comments but also encourage you to talk to your doctor or a counselor about those negative feelings. I dont at all recommend medication, but they can help you find other natural ways to bring some positive mojo back into your life, as well as ways to deal with the stress.
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    Addressing your opening statement; you are not hurting your baby by allowing yourself time to grieve for your circumstance. I spent the majority of nights sobbing in my car and feeling horribly guilty afterward, but if you do not allow yourself to process some of that pain, you’re doing more damage than bottling it up. There is NOTHING to be ashamed of, and I believe being around supportive and loving people is your best bet right now.
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    My dad died recently, and I’ve been struggling with basically the same thing. I allow myself to feel what I’m feeling for a little while, because bottling it up isn’t emotionally healthy. But I also make a concerted effort to block out time to be peaceful too each day. We don’t have to be one way all day everyday. We just need to use a little discipline to find some balance for us and for the baby. I take walks, eat well, buy myself flowers, talk to a friend, see a movie — whatever it is that makes you feel good for a little while will be good for your kid too.
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    Do exactly what the first comment said and if you want take a little vacation somewhere different and relax and think about your life with your baby.Remember now noone esle matter but your baby.

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